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August 24, 2026

Don't Just Talk to Your Users. Watch Them.

Don't Just Talk to Your Users. Watch Them.
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Talk to your users. Great advice, I love it. But what people say and what people do aren't always the same. This past week I watched my new hire Chris onboard a client and click through the same three default settings almost everybody changes, and the client got tripped up. Nobody would've filed a bug about it. So I changed the defaults to match the data. Don't just talk to your users. Watch them.

You've heard the advice a thousand times: talk to your users. And it's good advice. I mean it, I love it. If you're the person actually building your software company, and I am, you should be talking to your users constantly. Their feedback, their frustrations, what's confusing, what could be better. It's gold.

Written feedback too. We've got a bug-report and feature-request queue in HyppoCRM that I genuinely love reading. (Side note: HyppoCRM is free, so if you're tired of paying something like $497 a month for GoHighLevel, come say hi.)

But here's the thing nobody tells you. Talking is only one channel. What people say and what people do are not always the same, and the gap between those two is where the real insights live. So don't just talk to your users. Watch them.

What "watching" actually taught me

Here's a real example from this past week. I recently brought a sharp new guy named Chris onto the team, and he was onboarding one of our clients, getting them set up on Graphic, our system that runs a business's social media basically on autopilot. It's just a few clicks to configure.

So I watched. Not over-the-shoulder in a creepy way, just paying close attention to the actual flow. And I saw Chris walk into the default settings and start clicking. Switch the posting frequency to daily. Flip it from inactive to active. Turn the auto-approver on. Click, click, click.

Here's the kicker: I already knew from our analytics that those three settings are exactly what almost everybody chooses. And I watched the client get a little confused in the process, a little tripped up. Not Chris's fault at all, he's new and he did great. It was my fault.

My job is to delete the clicks

That's what I told Chris: this one's on me, not you. Because my entire job is to make everyone who uses our software click as little as humanly possible. (I wrote a whole piece on this, On UI, if you want the deeper version.)

Nobody filed a bug about this. Nobody requested it in words. If I'd only been "talking to users," I would never have caught it. But by watching one onboarding, the fix became obvious: change the defaults to match what people actually pick. So now when a new user signs up, the settings are already configured the way the data says they want them. Statistically, most people never have to touch them at all. A dozen little clicks, gone, for every future customer.

Test, iterate, fix, repeat

This is the whole loop I keep coming back to: test, iterate, fix, repeat. You ship it, you watch it meet reality, you fix what reality reveals, and you go again. Watching a real human use your product is one of the fastest, richest inputs into that loop there is.

So gather everything, ethically, of course. Spoken feedback. Written feedback. And the one almost everyone skips: actually watch them use the thing. Talking to your users is fantastic. But watch them too, and I promise you'll learn things that flat-out blow your mind, stuff nobody would ever have thought to tell you.

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